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I thought to myself, if he doesn't think its that big a deal, why should I? Here's what bugs me: FWB is basically a cop-out to avoid actual intimacy with another human being. ) but the actual joy of intercourse is being thrown out the window completely. At the time I wasn't partial to the paid dating sites, as few were heavily populated in Canada at the time. In the five years since I still haven't received anything quite as intense as what I received my first week on Lavalife (affectionately referred to as Lava).
Curious, I ask more about the Farmer's dating experiences.
Its the same reason why I don't enjoy sex doggy-style; I cannot connect with my partner. Which would be believable, since Ok Cupid focuses specifically on user-generated tests to determine compatibility. Normally I'd feel a twinge of sadness that he still hadn't grown up and was putting more innocent people through a hell of their own. But recommendations go a long way in my world, so I decided to sign up and see what happened. Where Casual Kiss offered me a couple of responses and hello's a week, Lavalife gave me hundreds upon hundreds in mere hours. Eventually the surge lifted, and I was able to thinkabout the entire process, and realized: I haven't paid a penny to Lavalife yet, and it's not a free dating site.
What irks me even more are the men who have FWB relationships exclusively. Here's my dilemma: Ef H is still trolling the dating sites, specifically freebie Ok With a profile that says he's childless, single, recently out of a long-term relationship so he's "not looking", but eventually would like "...a woman I not only want, but need". Problem is, Ef H's number of questions answered and compatibility markers haven't changed. And then I'd stop the thought process and move on, knowing (from experience) that the only way Ef H could attract anyone new was if the person in question had very little self-esteem or self-respect. Chat requests, messages and winks came at me from all three of their sections (dating, relationships and my personal favorite, intimate), and mostly from people within a 100 mile radius. Meet revelation #2: Lavalife is free for those in demand, as only the pursuers need to pay for credits to contact others.
They are essentially emotionally unavailable (as opposed to emotionally distant), and that's definitely NOT what I am looking for. ) Unfortunately, Ef H's gal also has a child of her own. No one is going to take care of us if we can't first take care of ourselves. I remember spending more than a day just sending out, "Thanks but no thanks" copy and pastes to everyone who had taken the time to say hello, but quickly gave up when I realized that replying meant somehow I was interested, even if the communication stated something different. Bad grammar or spelling that was beyond my basic tolerance levels? With this newfound information, I was even more impressed with the site, although I did feel a tad dirty knowing men were paying merely to say hello to a picture and profile.
In my personal experience the Relationship folks were looking to get married, fast (going so far as to propose on the first, second or third date more times than I can remember).
The Dating dudes were usually looking for intimate encounters but knew few women would openly say so themselves at the time, so they hunkered down in the next best space.
A select few were more Relationship oriented, but again, they went where the women were.
So do I keep on talking to this guy, knowing he's already told me what I need to know? I've been advised said Ex-from-Hell (Ef H) is moving in with his newest gal pal, who he just recently met while his last girlfriend was still pregnant with his kid. I realize there are many problems with this scenario already. Instead, I slowly worked my way through every message, wink and chat, looking for something unusual to grab my attention. I finally came to the conclusion it was no different than some guy sending a drink my way at the bar to get an introduction, so I left it at that.
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I later learned it was the top online dating site in Canada (according to Com Score Media Matrix), with more than five million views a month.
It had an adequate number of people, lots of fun features, and the ability to openly state exactly what I was looking for. That's when Revelation #3 hit me on the head: the intimate section was where it was at.